LOVE Ladies: Take everything seriously, at least for the start

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It is at this point that all that he does is sweet and endearing. At least you can manage to smile at him and laugh together even at his worst jokes. 

  play Ladies love well build men's bodies. Apparently this is the best they can have. (LinkedIn)

When things are just starting out with a new guy, everything is usually blue. Wait until you miss the point and soil it. Usually, romantic gestures tend to come fast.

They can make your heart melt, and can cause you to believe that he is just the best nest to house tour heart after a breakup with John who was known for teaser chocolates in the whole estate where you live.  Hey, you may very well be in love. Probably you know it better!

It is at this point that all that he does is sweet and endearing. At least you can manage to smile at him and laugh together even at his worst jokes. 

Meeting a guy you fancy puts a spring in your step that even the girls in the office notice straight away. Hey, they should know, someone is finally around!

So as you show off that new guy, here are five crucial steps in falling in love, which ladies must know.

First, he hits your eye

Forget the change in the heartbeat. The reality is that you fail to just keep an eye contact. You blush away instead. It may all have started with a glance and a smile. He noticed you, then alas, you noticed him noticing you.

He may have waved which made you smile. The next thing you know, he’s walking over to you confidently with a good stride. He says “hi” and tells you his name. You say yours too. Baby steps, you know!

play Love1 - Couples should spend their quality time together. This boosts confidence between them. (LinkedIn)


He gifts you

On agreeing to date him, he hardly can hide his romance. Romantic gestures are the do or die for ladies in the love ring! Some guys would send flowers (I don’t know if you have ever received a flower).

For your first date, he might arrive with a huge bouquet and a box of chocolates. The start of a new relationship means you get spoiled rotten. Flowers, chocolates and little gifts are his way of saying he really likes you. He fights his way into your heart!

play Flowers make great gifts at times/. Capitalise on what the new guy seem to be interested in. (Bookstr)


You do things for him

Guy like being ‘bosses’, like getting that mat next to his bed cleaned. There are lots of other romantic gestures you can make for your guy. Cooking for him a nice meal or going to see his choice of movie are things that are often go appreciated.

Cook something easy together. The best moments are when you are both laughing, so keep it light.

play Keep it simple always. You can cook together to spice up your moments. (African Romance)


The relationship gears up to next level

New relationships bring excitement, happiness, romance and passion into your life. Sometimes you might feel things are rushing ahead faster than you are ready for.

Don’t feel pressured to move things ahead. Romance is wonderful and may lead to intimacy, but it does not have to. You can still enjoy all of his romantic gestures without having to commit to doing things you don’t want to.

Strong connection on an intimate level

How about having that bubbly champagne together over the weekend? Probably feeding each other some strawberries would go down well this evening.

Sharing a bath and washing each other can be incredibly romantic. But this is cool when your relationship is ready.

play Go out together. Each one of you needs to create a state of belonging to each other. (South African Travel Agancy)


Romance is the little gifts you give each other.  It can also be the little things you do for each other. Girl, enjoy that new catch. Chew it out!

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