Breaking up with someone youâve been with for long hurts.
Whether youâre the one doing the dumping or being dumped, no one wants to see someone they love hurt â but thatâs just the way life is.
While the breakup might suck, there are ways to handle it in order to ease your way through the heartbreak.
1.Stop following them on social media
There doesnât have to be bad blood between the two of you to stop following your ex on social media. Itâs hard to move on from your ex when youâre keeping tabs on what they are doing every day. Instead of focusing on your well-being and peace of mind, you may get caught up in what they are doing and might have difficulties moving on.
2.Talk to your friends about it
Vent all your feelings out to people that you trust such as your friends. Itâs a free therapy session.
3.Keep busy
One of the best ways to get over someone is to try keep your mind off them. You can do this by travelling to different places or doing something that you are passionate about.
It can help clear your head and make you discover who you are away from your ex â clichĂ© but it can work.
4.Donât suggest to be friends right away
One mistake a lot of people make when they break up is agreeing to be friends with their ex immediately after breaking up. All this will do is confuse where the two of you stand.
5.Give yourself time to heal
Time heals all wounds â or at least helps you cope better with them. Take some time away from speaking to your ex; donât pretend to be cool with them if youâre not cool with them. It is allowed.
6.Avoid posting your grief on social media
There are some aspects of oneâs life that are okay being away from social media and one of them is posting about your break up. You may get a temporary good feeling with some of the âso sorryâ messages but then attract other comments of what happened or why or unwanted opinions which may make the healing process difficult.
And honestly, some people on social media wouldnât really care.