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Try to have a fun night with your coworkers at your annual holiday party — just take precautions to avoid awkward disasters.

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Have fun, but don't get too wild.

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  • If you plan to attend an office holiday party this year, keep in mind that it's still a work event.
  • One of the biggest mistakes you can make is drinking too much.
  • You should also avoid too much business talk.

'Tis the season — for your office's annual holiday party.

Here's hoping your bash is merry and bright. But, before you put on your Santa hat and go to town, just remember these kinds of wintery events are inherently risky. Mixing booze, coworkers, and the stress of the holiday season can be truly volatile.

So, take steps to avoid humiliating yourself at this year's festivities. The night could be fun ... or it could mutate into an evening of drunken disaster.

It all depends on your attitude.

Here are 17 tips to make sure your office holiday party is a definitive success.

Show up

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Show up

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To show that you're committed to the company, make sure you show up for at least 30 minutes. Always assume company gatherings are "must attend" events.

"If you never show up at company events, you lose brownie points," Karen Wickre, author of the recently published "Taking the Work Out of Networking: An Introvert's Guide to Making Connections That Count," previously told Business Insider.

Read more: Even if you're dreading your office holiday party, you still have to go. Here's your survival guide



But don't show up perfectly on time

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But don't show up perfectly on time

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Even if the party takes place at the office, Drew Magary at GQ advises you go home after work, then come back.

If you can't do that, just continue working until you see that 75% of your colleagues have turned on their holiday mode. Magary wrote: "You know who shows up on time? That one creepy lady who works in human resources who you never talk to. Now it's just you two, standing there while the DJ spins 'Gangnam Style.'"



Ask about the dress code ahead of time

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Ask about the dress code ahead of time

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You need to find out what the dress code is and stick to it, career coach Barbara Pachter previously told Business Insider.

Pachter, the author of "The Essentials of Business Etiquette," said you don't want people talking about what you wore the day or night after the party. Whatever you wear, remember that it's still a business event.



Use the party as an opportunity to meet people you don't already know

Use the party as an opportunity to meet people you don't already know play

Use the party as an opportunity to meet people you don't already know

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Especially in a large company, you'll likely see people at the party that you don't normally have a chance to interact with. Maybe they work on a different floor from you, or in a different team.

Workplace expert Lynn Taylor told Business Insider that you might consider creating a goal to speak to at least three new people, or another metric that's easily reached but ensures you step out of your comfort zone.

"Ask open-ended questions as you chat with people, so the conversation flows, and isn’t a ping-pong match," Taylor said.



Feel free to approach senior leadership, too

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Feel free to approach senior leadership, too

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The holiday party is a great chance to say hello to senior leadership who you might not typically interact with.

Wickre said to keep the interaction brief and cheery.

Try: "I just want to thank you for a great year, and let you know that I love working here. I'm so excited about next year and what you're doing."



Don't go on an empty stomach

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Don't go on an empty stomach

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Yes, you're going for the free canapés, but you should still eat at least a little bit before the party begins.

Being too busy to mingle because you're chowing down dozens of mini-sandwiches isn't really the best recipe for inter-office networking. And, if you plan to drink, you might get more intoxicated than you intended if you're attending on an empty stomach.



Don't explicitly conduct business

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Don't explicitly conduct business

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In other words, don't ask about that new position opening up or if you're eligible for a raise. It's tacky.

Since it's an office event, it's obvious that some business-related conversations will come up, but don't come to the party with an agenda, Helene Wasserman, an attorney for the international labor and employment law firm Littler, previously told Business Insider.

On the flip side of things, avoid gossiping about your coworkers, too.



And don't talk politics, either

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And don't talk politics, either

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Politics, religion, race relations, and so on shouldn't be discussed at the work party.

"It might be the 'low hanging fruit' given all the headlines lately, but try to steer clear of getting on a soapbox, unless you feel you’re in safe territory – or it can get awkward fast," Taylor said.



Be sensitive to different religious affiliations

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Be sensitive to different religious affiliations

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Your coworkers might not be celebrating the same holiday you do. Play it safe by simply wishing them an inclusive "Happy holidays!"



Know your drinking limit

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Know your drinking limit

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"Seem like a good way to loosen up?" Taylor said. "Don't do it. It's a bad way to make a first impression."

You need to prepare yourself ahead of time by setting guidelines, whether that's one or two drinks max.

Taylor said indulging in more than a few drinks might be a good way to combat any shyness or nervousness you might have about the party, but it's better to be a little introverted than to make a total fool of yourself.



Don't get romantic with another employee

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Don't get romantic with another employee

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Avoid public displays of affection, even if you're seeing someone in the office.

"If you are dating someone at the company and still keeping it a secret, this is not the time to start dancing romantically, because then everyone will know," Pachter said.

It's also not the time to try to make a move on a coworker you've been crushing on, or to start trying to woo an employee you're meeting for the first time.

"Don't embarrass somebody by going up to them and asking them to dance unless you're sure they will say yes," Pachter said.



Loosen up a bit

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Loosen up a bit

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Obviously, you don't want to loosen up to the point where you're plastered, yelling at your office nemesis, or generally embarrassing yourself in front of people. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't try to relax a bit.

"Pretend you're at a friend's party," Taylor said. "While this is a time for professionalism, it's supposed to be fun, not torture. If you can remind yourself of that, it should take some pressure off."



Don't be the last one to leave the party

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Don't be the last one to leave the party

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It might be a festive event, but don't make a name for yourself as the company's party animal. Also, try to stop drinking an hour before you leave, said Wasserman.

If you become too intoxicated, find a cab immediately.



Don't go to the third venue

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Don't go to the third venue

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Some of your coworkers may want to go out after the party ends, and if you've been controlling your alcohol intake, feel free to go and mingle with your colleagues.

However, a few drinks later, if someone suggests a third venue, don't go.

Why? By the time you make it to that third venue, the vibe has changed. It's no longer the "happy hour" crowd. It's now the "let's rage" crowd.

At this moment — as a working adult — you need to make a choice. The moment your colleagues see you in a compromising position, they will likely view you differently. Is that a risk you want to take?



Make sure you say goodbye to people

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Make sure you say goodbye to people

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If you don't say your goodbyes, it will make it look like you snuck out for some reason. You can also make a point of going up to the people who organized the party and thanking them for doing such a great job.



Be mindful of social media

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Be mindful of social media

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It's a huge no-no to post negative opinions about your company or its holiday party on Facebook or Twitter, Pachter said. You'll also want to avoid posting photos or descriptions of coworkers who have had too much to drink.

In general, Pachter said it's best to keep anything you write about the party positive and to ask people before posting photos of them on social media.

"Someone's unbecoming behavior shouldn't be discussed or shown on Facebook," she said.



Make it to work the next day

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Make it to work the next day

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This is even more crucial if you get intoxicated at the party. Everyone will know why you didn't show up to work the next day — including your boss.

Brian Moylan at Gawker wrote: "You have to go to work the next day. If you don't, everyone will know why, and they will sit around and talk about your bad behavior the night before twice as much. If you're there, they have to sneak around and do it behind your back, which will cut down on the office gossip by at least 50%. You're already in trouble, don't make it worse."

This post is an updated version of a story originally written by Vivian Giang and Aaron Taube.



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