It took me 6 years to let go- Akothee opens up on divorce with ex-hubby Jared Okello after daughter’s graduation party

Divorce doesn't have to be ugly- Akothee

Photos from Vesha Okello's graduation Party/ Akothee and ex-Hubby Jared Okello

Self-proclaimed President of Single Mothers Esther Akoth aka Akothee penned down a powerful message to all single mothers out there stating that sometimes divorce doesn’t have to be ugly.

According to Madam Boss, it took her 6 years to move on from her first failed marriage, something that was not easy to do basing on the fact that there were kids involved.

The singer made the revelation after linking up with her ex-hubby Jared Okello for the celebration of their daughter Vesha Okollo’s graduation party.

Divorce doesn't have to be ugly

She added that healing from a failed relationship is painful, but it helps when you see your ex-partner as friend, parent and not an enemy.

“DIVORCE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE UGLY 🙏🎓

Family Relationships are created by God , where there are children there is no burning bridges. A child has only one biological Mother & one biological Father 💪 your indiferences should not hinder your children from enjoying both parents, once the infatuation, sex life ,lust is gone ,allow yourself to grow 🙏 It hurts! bit won't last if you let go !

Did you know that Women can make Hell look like heaven and Heaven look like Hell 💪

Healing process is very painful ,but the relief is joyful ,when you now see your Ex as a friend / a partner a fellow parent and no longer an enemy, then you can now see heaven with no baggage , it took me 6 years to let go 😭😭😭, I focused more on myself and my children 💪 don't copy my chapter 10 ,it doesn't work easily like that , work on yourself first before you hurt yourself again 🤣🤣

Meet My EX MR JARED OKELLO OTIENO

@okellojared3shared Madam Boss.

Forgiveness

The Abebo maker went on to say that forgiveness is important and those who hold grudges are not ready to heal.

After 14 years of divorce and separation. Forgiveness is devin

And He who Holds a grudge is a fool

The journey has been heavy ,but thank God we are here Alive

Thanks for honoring my invitation to our first born daughter's graduation , may God protect you and your family

AMEN 💪

@rosytissueske @peptang_keadded Akothee.

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