Don’t feel pressure to deliver beyond your means - Julie Gichuru ahead of Valentine’s day
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In a period where women expect a lot from men, from being treated with fancy gifts to candle light dinners, Ms Julie advised men not to bow down to the pressure of delivering beyond their means.
She further added that time was more important than anything and if a man felt pressured to live beyond his means he should look for another woman who will be his friend, partner and equal.
“To my sons, There is no need to feel pressure to deliver what is beyond your means or even simply imprudent or impactical. One rose and your time is more than enough and any woman worth her salt would get it. If you feel pressured to live beyond your means maybe you need to look for the woman who will be your friend, partner and equal. Give love, respect and attention every day, that is the true gift ♥️ . read her post.
She urged the ladies to take control and spoil their men if they were in a position to.
“To my daughters, There is nothing more empowering than deciding to break the mold and take control. Get him a rose. Give him a gift. Take the drivers seat and spoil him if you can.”
She further stated that women needed God in their lives and the power to handle her business as well as chose her partner wisely.
"A woman must know that she needs nothing from any external forces other than God. She must know that she can handle her business. She therefore needs no man but is able to choose her partner - her homie/lover/friend. That is powerful. Be that woman ♥️ Be different. Do it your way. No pressure. Hii mwaka haitaki makasiriko ☺😉♥️😘😘😘" concluded Julie.
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