Every time is not baby making time. Sometimes you will be tired, other times on your periods and other times you simply won’t be in the mood.
But besides that, there are other times you literally need to keep off even if you feel like you are losing control.
Here are some moments you must try as much as you can to stay away from having sex:
1. When drunk
Drunk sex might sound adventurous but you should keep off by all means. First, you might be so drunk to even know the person you are sleeping with. And, you might end up having unprotected sex and risk getting STDs or unwanted pregnancy.
2. When you don’t want to
It does not matter whether your partner is dying to have you or not. If you don’t want to have intercourse, just don’t do it. Not just because you won’t like it but because you could also get hurt especially if you are not wet enough down there.
3. When you have a yeast infections
Yeast infections already are enough trouble on your lady parts. The last thing you want is anymore irritation from sex. Besides, having sex during the infection can worsen the problem. It’s best you wait until full recovery.
4. When one of you is undergoing STI treatment
If one of you was diagnosed with an STI such as gonorrhea, you will have to abstain from sex. Unless you want to be infected.
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5. Before seeing a gynecologist
If you are planning to see a gynecologist, avoid sex for at least 24 hours prior to the visit. Semen alters the pH of the vagina which may affect gynecologist’s examination.
6. After surgery
Whether it’s after a cesarean section or any type of surgery around your abdomen, you need to avoid sex until you heal. Having sex too soon after a surgery hinders the recovery process and could also lead to bleeding thus worsening the wound. Wait until the doctor gives you the go ahead to have sex to avoid complications.