What you need to go through the back door.
This is the kind of sex where penetration happens in the anus or rectum.
Some people enjoy stimulation in the back door.
1. Start small
When masturbating, you can start with inserting your fingers or small butt plugs, vibrators or dildos then gradually graduate to larger objects. This will help you figure out what you're most comfortable with.
2. Prepare your partner
If your partner is an anal virgin and wants to partake, you can't just surprise them. Preparation must be had.
3. Do it 3-5 hours after doing a number two
For hygiene purposes, it may be best to wait 3-5 hours so as to allow your rectum to be clear. You can also take a shower with warm water and soap. Should you be the very hygienic type, you can also have an enema.
4. Always be safe
There was the myth that when you have anal sex, you're less likely to get a sexually transmitted infection. This is false, if you and your partner haven't been tested, make sure you use a condom because rectal tissue is more susceptible to disease-carrying organisms.
5. Use a lot foreplay
This helps the anal muscles to relax which will make the sex less painful.
6. Use lots of lube
Water based lubricants will help as the rectum doesn't self-lubricate.
7. It may not be enough to achieve orgasm
Some women will require clitoral stimulation while having anal sex so as to achieve orgasm.