How to take things to the next level.
Especially if your partner is more experienced than you.
Both partners will be worried that they would mess up on top of countless other concerns.
1. Avoid alcohol
It is likely to induce erectile dysfunction and make you both even more nervous.
2. Be romantic
But to your strengths. Make your partner feel comfortable, wanted. Lingering touches, seductive clothing, scented candles can never hurt.
3. Make sure everything is clean and within reach
Ensure that your bedsheets are crispy fresh and clean. Make sure that you have enough condoms. If you're planning to use lubricant or other amenities- makes sure that they are within reach.\
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4. When seeing each other naked for the first time, make the most of it
Explore your new partner's body. Make sure you learn what works for them. Take turns, do it in tandem. Allow each other a space where you marvel at each other's bodies rather than make your partner self-conscious. It can help if you do it in dim lighting.
5. Defer to her during penetration
When you've built up the moment and finally get to the act, once you finally slide home, ensure that she is fine. Let her dictate the pace. Take the moment to connect. Eye contact, a kiss or anything to establish more intimacy.