Millenials and Love 5 clear signs she’s just using you

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Here are some signs you may have missed to detect.

play Hugging - signs she's just using you. (Courtesy)

You meet this girl that you really like. She’s charming, funny, and intelligent plus the both of you have a great time together.

Basically she’s your type of woman and much more.

Only problem is, you aren’t too sure how serious she is with you. You’ve made your intentions clear but she always seems dodgy about hers.

There’s only one possible explanation for this and that is she is using you. Here are some signs you may have missed to detect.

1.She hasn’t introduced you to her friends or loved ones

play Girlfriends - signs she's just using you. (Livishe)

Every time you bring up meeting her friends or family, she’s always dodgy about it and doesn’t give you a clear reason why. It’s always something vague like ‘you’ll meet them another time’.

2.You're never introduced as her boyfriend

When you do happen to meet their loved ones, you are never introduced as her boyfriend but a close friend or she may introduce you based off of how the two of you met.

3.You only see her when she wants something from you

The only time you’ll ever feel wanted is when she’s asking for a favor. “Please buy me this or take me to this new restaurant”.

4.Your relationship is centered on what she wants and not what is best for the two of you

It is always about her and what she wants. She rarely mentions a “we” in her statements but more of “I want to do this or that”.

play It's all about me meme - signs she's just using you. (Courtesy)


She’s not bothered about you or your wants or needs. She finds a way to turn it around and make it about her.

5.She dodges your physical advances

You may get a peck once in a while but don’t expect it to go beyond that. What makes the lack of physical intimacy fishy, is the fact that you might catch her holding hands and flirting with other guys freely.

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