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Sexual health 5 things you need to do before having sex with a new partner

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How to take things to the next level.

How to make things easier when initiating sex with a new partner play How to make things easier when initiating sex with a new partner (Courtesy)

Initiating sex with a new partner is always a test of courage.

Especially if your partner is more experienced than you.

Both partners will be worried that they would mess up on top of countless other concerns.

Here are 5 things to make things easier when initiating sex with a new partner.

play How to make things easier when initiating sex with a new partner (Courtesy)
 

ALSO READ: 10 things men fear the most when having sex with someone new

1. Avoid alcohol

It is likely to induce erectile dysfunction and make you both even more nervous.

2. Be romantic

But to your strengths. Make your partner feel comfortable, wanted. Lingering touches, seductive clothing, scented candles can never hurt.

3. Make sure everything is clean and within reach

Ensure that your bedsheets are crispy fresh and clean. Make sure that you have enough condoms. If you're planning to use lubricant or other amenities- makes sure that they are within reach.\

ALSO READ: 7 things every virgin should know

4. When seeing each other naked for the first time, make the most of it

Explore your new partner's body. Make sure you learn what works for them. Take turns, do it in tandem. Allow each other a space where you marvel at each other's bodies rather than make your partner self-conscious. It can help if you do it in dim lighting.

5. Defer to her during penetration

When you've built up the moment and finally get to the act, once you finally slide home, ensure that she is fine. Let her dictate the pace. Take the moment to connect. Eye contact, a kiss or anything to establish more intimacy.

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