Intimacy is an important topic to discuss when in a romantic relationship.
Will you be intimate while youâre still dating or are the two of you going to be celibate? Would you want to know how many partners they had before you? So many questions that need answers.
The best thing to do in such a situation is to have a conversation with your partner about all this so that the both of you are on the same page.
Here are five important sex topics to have with your partner.
1.Sexual history
Would you want to know how many people your partner slept with before you or would you rather not talk about it? If you donât want to talk about it and want to leave the past in the past then it is still a conversation to have just in case you and your partner may not feel the same.
2.Exclusivity
So, the two of you are sleeping with one another but havenât really defined what youâre actually doing. It is very important to know where you stand with your partner just in case feelings are misplaced.
3.Sexual health
It is crucial to let your partner know about your sexual health. If you arenât aware yet, visit a doctor and know your status as well as rule out other possible diseases before getting intimate.
4.Contraception
Are you going to use contraception or not? Which type of contraception will work for you two?
5.Sexual desires
Communication about sexual desires or how you like it in the bedroom should definitely be a discussion to have with your partner. If you donât like something and would want it to change, then communicate it â donât hurt their feelings in the process though. Show them what you like and theyâll respond the right way â wink.