A heartbreak can be hard to deal with especially when it involves someone you truly loved.
At some point, you try convincing yourself that all shall be well, that you will soon find someone better than her but then you feel like your whole life has come to a standstill.
Although some relationships are not worth fighting for, there are those that you can’t just give up on so easily. If such is your case, you should start working towards winning her back.
Here are some tips that will make that girl who broke up with you miss you like crazy and crawl back to you:
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1. No contact
I know you really miss those breathtaking moments you had with her but you must fight the urge to get in touch with her. At least not so soon. After the break up, give yourselves time to heal and think over the whole thing. Staying away will also make her notice how important you were and miss you.
2. Get busy with your life
While you may be feeling like your entire life has been shattered, your ex-girlfriend should never notice this. Let them always have the picture of you getting busy with your life like nothing ever happened. If you have to post on social media, make sure it sends the message of a happy and contented person.
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3. Make yourself better
No one is perfect. However, there are habits that we can change to become better people. If she broke up with you due to some habits that you can work on, do it. Try and be that person she has always wished you could be and she will soon be attracted to you again.
4. Don’t act desperately
Even if you are dying to have her back, she should never know. Crying, kneeling and too much begging will only put her off instead of winning her. Appearing so needy shows her how miserable you are without her and I am sure you don’t want that. The more you chase her, the more she will ran away. So, take it slow and see how well things will unfold with time.
5. Apologize
If you are the one who hurt her, be smart enough and apologize. It does not make you a lesser man but only shows that you are mature enough to accept when you are wrong. Also, don’t just say “sorry” for the sake of it but only say it if and when you really mean it.