6 Sexy Ways to Spice up A Boring Sex Life (Photos)

Truth be told, no matter how sexy a couple is or how hot they are for each other, at some point the sex life hits a hurdle or plummets to the ground altogether.

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Here are a few tips to get the engine roaring once again:

1. Spice up Your Foreplay

Some men often rush into the nunu with the neck-breaking speed of a diarrhea-sufferer rushing into a city council toilet. But the vagina is not going anywhere unless you are stealing someone else’s.

Take your time to tease and seduce your partner. Give each other sensual dances, tease each other with a strip show, have sensual massages or better yet, fondle each other sensually before you do the deed. Nothing ignites the dead flames quite like some good foreplay.

2. Change Sexual Venues-I.e. Have Sex in All Areas of Your House Other Than the Bedroom

Sex in the bedroom is boring and can make even a decent sex-life feel like the most monotonous thing ever. Skip the bedroom and have sex in the shower, in the bathtub (if that's your cup of tea) or even the living room when there is nobody around.

3. Try New Tricks or New Sex Positions

Missionary seems to be the default sex position for many people in long-term relationships, maybe because it’s comfortable and stress free. Plus you are at past that stage of trying to impress your partner with some crazy contortionist’s positions.

Change up to another position to ignite your R.I.P-d sex life ,you do not have to go all-out Kama Sutra, but a small thing like a stack of pillows placed under your behind (for the lady) can make a HUGE differnce. This act of placing the pillows elevates the lady for better penetration and can give her the Big O faster than usual.

Sex that is had when standing up and one of you is pinned to a wall can be mind-blowing

4. Mild BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism)

Once in a while, dabble with the 'darker side' of sex. You do not have to go all out with the violent chocking or the whips and chains (Sadism and Masochism) but tying your partner with a tie to the bedpost and letting him/her do what he/she wants to do with you can get the sex life ball rolling once again.

Or better yet, if you are one who is usually a timid deer in the bedroom, reach out to your inner dominatrix and let her take the lead.

5. Lingerie

Nothing stirs up romance and passion quite like a sexy piece of lingerie. Ladies, get the lingerie style that best flatters your body, top it up with some heels (which you will keep on during the roll in the hay) for some sexy time.

6. Keep the Lights On

A lot of women are conscious about their naked body but should not be, because if this person has chosen to have sex with you, then they find you attractive.

So let go of your reservations and keep the lights on or better yet, enjoy the act with some mood lighting like candles or the TV on mute. Often ignored for its brighter cousins like the bulb, the TV light sets the perfect mood as it’s not too harsh neither is it too low that you strain you eyesight.

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