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We are adults right? So, letâs talk about the art of cunnilingus, or if you like, going down on a woman. Some men have mastered this art while for others, itâs somewhat rocket science. Well, like with many other skills, all it takes, really, is some practise. What makes a good cunnilingus toe-curling and mind-blowing? We have some tips.
1. Itâs okay to get some inspiration from elsewhere.
Watch some porn videos, read some books on sexual pleasure and get an idea of what needs to be done if youâre an amateur in that.
2. When going down on a woman, start slow.
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Whereâs the rush? Get her ready down there. If you think about it, the more time you spend getting her wet, the less time you will spend trying to get her to orgasm. Kiss her, lick her erogenous zones, stroke her hair, whisper sweet nothings into her ears, lick her breastsâŠslowly work your way to her vagina with sweet kisses.
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3. Get into a position thatâs comfortable for the both of you.
There are many positions, depending on your level of kinkiness. So, find your best position and go for it.
4. Use all of your tongue and lips, not just the tip of the tongue.
Some men go down there and start licking like theyâre tasting some pepper. Nah bro, stick that tongue out, spit if you have to and get licking. Remember, start slow so that youâre not out of breath so fast.
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5. Ask for direction.
You could ask if she likes what youâre doing if youâre not sure. But, do note that some women prefer when men donât talk in that heat of the moment. Alternatively, you can watch her reactions which will guide you on whether youâre getting it right or not. If youâre getting it right, keep doing what youâre doing.
6. Rhythm is important.
Not too fast, not too slow, plus consistency. Some people use a count or a song in the head to maintain a certain rhythm. An orgasm is like one of those sneezes that come then disappear before you can sneeze them outâŠsometimes, once itâs vanished, itâs vanished and thatâs one of the most disappointing feelings ever. (In reference to the orgasm here, not the cough, lol)
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7. Try the good old drawing letters with your tongue.
They say that drawing letter 8 for instance is quite stimulating. You could also try spelling her name with your tongue, for a different sensation. Also, mix that with going in with your tongue, just a bit.
8. Feel free to add some penetration, like your finger.
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9. Or a toy, if sheâs okay with some double pleasure.
10. Try some tricks out there like mixing hot and cold sensations.
Insert an ice cube in your mouth then lick her. You could also try hot water or some sweets with mint. Itâs all for the purpose of a different unexpected sensation.
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11. Find the clitoris.
A vagina is not just the lips, it has some other parts too, you know?! Insert one finger(or two), and stroke it in the direction of come here and find a consistent rhythm for the finger while licking her still. Mix this with kissing her inner thighs, part between the bum and vagina (perineum) and also the butthole, if sheâs clean, because why not? In the words of Jhene Aiko, you gotta eat the booty like groceries.
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Clitoral orgasm.
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