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Girlfriends Day: Real meaning and why boyfriends should keep off

Chances are, you’ve misunderstood what National Girlfriends Day is really about. Here is the real meaning and history behind the special day
An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating
An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

National Girlfriends Day, celebrated annually on August 1, isn't just another date on the calendar for couples to post their love on social media. 

It's a day with a rich, albeit slightly fuzzy, history that has evolved to celebrate the multifaceted nature of female relationships. 

So, what is Girlfriends Day really about? Is it for your romantic partner, your best friend, or both? Let's dive into the true meaning of this special day.

An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

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The Origin of National Girlfriends Day

The exact origin of National Girlfriends Day is a bit of a modern mystery with a few competing claims. Some sources point to a book promotion in 2002 by authors Kathleen Laing and Elizabeth Butterfield for their book, "Girlfriends Getaway." 

Others credit Mistress Susan, who runs a luxury website, with creating the day in 2004 as an opportunity for women to express their gratitude for each other

The most widely cited origin story attributes the day to Allie Savarino Kline and Sally Rodgers, who are said to have started the celebration in 2006.

Regardless of who started it, the sentiment has always been clear: to celebrate the unique and powerful bond between women. 

It's a day to honour the women who are confidantes, cheerleaders, and pillars of support, regardless of the nature of the relationship.

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An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

The Modern Celebration of Girlfriends Day

In recent years, National Girlfriends Day has taken on an even deeper meaning. It has become a day to celebrate female empowerment, mutual support, and the incredible strength that comes from women uplifting women

It's a time to recognise the "ride or die" crew, the sisters (by birth or by choice), the mentors, and the friends who see you through your best and worst times.

In a world that is increasingly recognising the importance of emotional intelligence and connection, Girlfriends Day serves as a beautiful reminder to nurture these vital relationships.

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Ways to Celebrate Girlfriends Day

The beauty of Girlfriends Day is that there's no right or wrong way to celebrate. It's all about honouring the special women in your life in a way that feels authentic to your relationship.

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An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

An AI-generated image of ladies celebrating

For Your Gal Pals

  • Plan a "Galentine's" style brunch or dinner: Gather your besties for a delicious meal and quality time.

  • Have a spa day: Pamper yourselves with massages, facials, or manicures.

  • Get creative together: Take a pottery class, go to a paint-and-sip night, or have a DIY craft session at home.

  • Have a movie marathon: Binge-watch your favourite female-centric films or TV shows.

  • Write heartfelt notes: Sometimes, the most meaningful gift is expressing your appreciation in words.

For Self-Love

  • Treat yourself: Buy yourself flowers, take a long bath, or indulge in your favourite dessert.

  • Reflect on your growth: Take some time to journal and celebrate how far you've come.

  • Connect with nature: Go for a hike, have a picnic in the park, or simply spend some time in your backyard.

National Girlfriends Day is a beautiful opportunity to celebrate the incredible women who make your life brighter. 

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