So you have been dating for some years and now think that itâs time to get hitched? Well, donât be in such a rush. Because it is possible that you are not ready for marriage yet.
Before you plight your troth to your boo, read through these signs to determine if you are ready for marriage or not:
1. You have secrets
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If you still keep secrets from each other, then itâs crystal clear that you are not ready for marriage. The last thing you will want is to be in a marriage full of secrets.
2. You donât trust your partner
Itâs trust that makes people keep secrets from each other. If you donât fully trust your partner, you need to work on the issue first before heading for the altar.
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3. Divorce is no big deal for you
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Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime affair. If you are getting married with the mentality of leaving later if things donât work, donât get married yet. You need to be so sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person.
4. You donât talk about money
The money talk is probably the most difficult to have in a relationship. But if you still donât know your partnerâs financial situation, please donât get married yet. They could be in serious debts and this may strain your marriage later.
5. You fight frequently
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Even the most adorable couple fights. But if you canât remember the last time you stayed without fighting with your partner, something is wrong. Especially if you are always arguing over the same thing, donât get married yet.
6. You are not over your ex
If you are always fantasizing about your ex, make sure you get over them first before tying the knot. Otherwise, the very ex will be the very reason as to why your marriage will fall apart.