Ladies, here are surefire signs your partner is cheating on you

Your partner might be having a side dish and you don't know

A really confused woman

We can all agree that being cheated on is one of the worst things that anyone in a relationship can go through.

People cheat for different reasons, the most being, to get something that they're not getting in their current relationship.

Most people say that it's easier to leave a relationship than cheat and that's true but cheating is almost like a drug, you know you're not supposed to do it, but the thrill of doing it takes you into a trance.

One thing's for sure, once someone starts cheating, it's almost impossible to stop and from then on the relationship will go downhill. Sure, some couples have managed to salvage a dying relationship after one partner cheated but once the trust is broken, it's just never the same anymore.

Have you noticed some behavior change in your partner? Do you suspect that your partner is cheating but have no evidence?

Well, check out these signs that you may be dating a dirty dirty cheat.

Maybe they used to come in at 6:00 p.m. from work, chill a bit and have a cup of tea or watch TV but suddenly, they come in later in the evening and head straight to the shower.

While the change of pattern could be due to other factors such as stress at work and such, at times, it could mean that they're cheating.

Suddenly, the phone has a password, they might even have two lines or phones and you have no idea. A cheater will never leave his/her phone unattended. It's always either in their hands or hidden somewhere.

Something is definitely up.

And when they are, the sexual patterns have changed. Like, new s*x positions or maybe your partner doing things they weren't doing before like whispering naughty things in your ears and such.

They never seem to ask how your day was or show the care that was once there.

Erm, it's to cover up for the guilt.

Investigate those trips, those are the ones where your partner gets to escape and have a bomb time with their side in the name of a business trip.

You may find a receipt of an expensive dinner or a huge transaction while doing laundry. Or, you just never seem to know where the money is going anymore, as they're constantly complaining of being broke. That's because the money is being siphoned into the side piece's account. Duh!

For someone that didn't put so much attention into how they look, suddenly, they care about being well-groomed and looking the part. That's because there's someone new that they're trying to impress.

Like, lipstick marks on your man's shirt or the car seat being moved or a different scent.

They deny and accuse you back. That's a cheater's defense mechanism.

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