Dating Guys don't be duped. Here are 6 ways to spot a classic lady

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She might be a hot babe, but that doesn't make her classy

Lupita Nyong'o rarely shows skin but she's definitely sexy. play Lupita Nyong'o rarely shows skin but she's definitely sexy. (Elle)

A time comes in a man's life when when he stops looking at what’s readily available and pursues his ultimate woman.

The classic lady.

According to The Feminine Woman, a classy lady is, “A genuine, feminine and high quality woman who holds herself and thinks of herself highly regardless of what life circumstances may present, and despite what other people may think…”

While we’re (ahem) few in numbers. A classic woman isn’t so hard to find. If you know what you’re looking for, you can spot her from miles away.

So what makes a woman classy?

1. She’s authentic

She doesn’t compromise on her feelings. She knows what she wants and is mentally grounded about her desires,  what she will do or won’t do. She won’t fake her cleverness. Her opinions come from being well informed and if she doesn’t know, she won’t bother to act like she does but let you teach her.

play You could tell from her speeches, Mitchelle Obama is one authentic lady. (People)


2. Her dressing is impressive

A classy woman understands that being sexy doesn’t necessarily mean being revealing. She knows how to dress her body, whatever the size, to keep you staring in desire but still leave you guessing. She doesn’t follow trends either. Instead, she looks for what works for her and sticks to the basics. Trust me, jeans and v-neck top can be the sexiest outfit you’ve ever seen.

3. She doesn’t care for drama

Instead of hurling insults at the top of her voice, a classy lady walks out or simply states her grievances in the calmest way. She won’t beg you to understand her position. Naah, that’s your problem. She just wanted you to know that you’re about to lose the best thing that ever happened to you.

4. Her aura

She’s got presence. She doesn’t need to announce her arrival. By the time she’s walking up to you, most heads if not all would have already turned to find out which important person just walked in.

5. Her laughter is rich

What I mean is, it’s not fake. While she won’t give you a hard time making conversation with her, she won’t make as easy either. Her laughter is rich because you only hear it when it’s earned. She’s great at hosting, quite the comfy puddle to be in but you’ll have to pull your best stops, intellectually, to keep her interested.

6. She is not an open book

There’s always something to discover about her. She doesn’t open up (get your mind out of the gutter) on the first date or the second. She’s objective, a classy woman won’t let heart lead but will question every emotion that arises when she’s with you. Hopefully, she likes what she’s feeling or you’ll be a solo dolo with zero regrets on her side.

play Beyond her life as a celebrity, what more do you know about Maureen Kunga? (Vivo Activewear)
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