Dating tips What to do when you like two people at the same time.

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How to deal with crushing on two people.

What to do when you're attracted to two people play What to do when you're attracted to two people (wise Geek)

It's not odd to find yourself attracted to two people at the same time.

The circumstances could have been brought about by meeting them between a short interval or even meeting them at the same event.

The situation takes a turn for the interesting when they also like you back.


This is what you do when you find yourself liking two people at the same time.

1. Acknowledge your feelings

It's not wrong or criminal to be crushing on two people. But you need to be aware of your own feelings so that you don't hurt any of the involved parties.

2. Be clear about what you want

Make it clear that you don't want to be exclusive when you start dating both of them. Say that you want to explore your options and get to know them before you settle.


3. Make sure they don't know about each other

This will prevent any awkwardness in your life.

4. Cut your losses if you can't choose

If you find yourself unable to choose and your interests aren't interested in a three-way, you should cut your losses to avoid heart break.

5. When you finally choose, be kind

Don't be mean when you let down the unfortunate suitor who was interested.

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