Picture this.
You have finally gotten some after what seemed like an eternity of a dry spell.
So you and this guy are lying in bed and thereâs a bit of an awkward silence because youâre not quite sure what to say to each other.
In a bid to break the ice you hit him with a âThanks for thatâ comment. I donât need to tell you how much more awkward that comment just made things.
It may seem like some sort of compliment to the guy at that time but that guy may not take it as such â unless youâre paying him for the sex then it would be an exception.
Check out some things you should never tell a guy after sex.
1.Never talk about family (whether past, current or future)
âYou know Iâve always wanted to have like four kidsâ. Stop right there.
You may be better off just keeping quiet, rolling over to one side of the bed and falling asleep other than say this to a guy.
Conversations about sisters, brothers, mothers or any family members should be out of the question too.
2.Thanks
As mentioned above, unless the sex is transactional, do not tell him thanks after sex.
There are other ways you can compliment that guyâs bedroom skills.
3.That was surprisingly good
According to askmen.com, saying this is basically equivalent to saying âI set the bar really low and you pretty much exceeded itâ.
Saying that pretty much kills the moment and can come off a bit offensive to the guy.
Yes you might have not expected the sex to be that good but you donât necessarily have to say it either; especially after sex.
4.How was it?
So you didnât like how he touched you that one time during sex but really enjoyed the foreplay but youâre not sure whether he liked what you did that other time when you were switching positions.
You can tell how confusing finding an answer to this can be right.