Bedroom matters 5 ways to give her orgasm without actual penetration

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There are other ways that a woman can reach orgasm without necessarily having penetrative sex.

For one reason or the other, penetrative sex may just not be on the table that night but doesn’t mean that you can’t please her at all.

Here are 5 ways to give her an orgasm without actual penetration.


Masturbate while facing each other. Some women get off by watching a man stroke himself while feeling herself up as well.

Sex toys

For those that are into using sex toys then this would be the option for you. There are a number of non-penetrative sex toys that can definitely help in getting her off.

Oral sex

Let your tongue and mouth go to work.


Nipple orgasm

A woman’s breasts and in particular their nipples become very sensitive when they are aroused so much so that some of them can actually get off from their nipple being fondled.

So don’t be shy to play around with her breasts the next time penetrative sex is not on the table.

Explore your woman’s body and learn where to touch her to make her toes curl. Let her give you a tour of her body and how she likes being touched and before you know it – bingo.


Maximise on foreplay. A lot of women usually complain about the foreplay being cut short. This is the best time to try out new things with foreplay and just enjoy each other without actually having penetrative sex.

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