This is why you're better off growing together

ruby orimba

March 12, 2017 12:58 AM

Sometimes it pays more to work together

You can't put a price on financial security.

No romance without finance. A statement long gone unmentioned but always upheld by so many women.

It’s okay to want a man with money. You honestly can’t put a price on financial security but at the same time there’s a lot more to derive from a relationship that’s growing financially together. Read on

1. Respect

You could walk into that relationship with a fat behind but he still won’t talk to you in details about finances. While you may come in with your own money. It will take longer for both of you to work your way to trusting each other’s decisions on how to spend and invest.

2. No pressure

If he’s a gentleman then no doubt that he’s been pulling all the stops to get to you. The good news is, it’s a great standard to set for a budding relationship. However, chances are, you may have to compromise that lifestyle a few times if you don’t want to chase his away with pressure.

3. Honesty

Let’s be real, have you ever lied to someone you’re dating about your finances? If never, that’s great, but a lot of people have and still do even after marriage. It takes years to build full honesty between when it comes to money. How many times have we heard of men whose part of their property was only identified for first time to their unknowing wives?

4. Hard times

Even the well goes dry. Building a relationship with someone allows you to understand each other and know how each of you reacts to hard times. This way, even when the money starts flowing you’ll have a stronger back for harder hustles.

5. Trial and Error

The hunt is always better when the lioness is also hungry. In a financially developing relationship, the chances to try and fail at business and then try again are unlimited.