Sometimes, we end up settling in relationships. Maybe, we donât really like the guy, completely, but we like the convenience of being in that relationship such as if the guy is spoiling you, or heâs your financial plan. Some people will ask âWhatâs the point if youâre not in love?â Well, the money, honeyâŠhello? Lol. I get it, I really do, I mean, why people would end up in such situations. I say, do whatever you feel is right, itâs your life and youâre free to do whatever you feel like. Wondering if youâre happy in your relationship? Well, here are subtle signs that youâre not really happy.
1. You constantly feel like you settled, like, thereâs better out there.
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2. You youâre always looking elsewhere.
You have a boyfriend, but youâre on dating profiles like Tinder and Bumble.
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3. You see other couples and youâre jealous of what they have and wish that was you.
4. Everything he/she does annoys you mad.
He could be sitting there breathing, minding his business, and you will think to yourself âUrgh! This asshole.â
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5. Youâre never in the mood for sex. You always seem to have an excuse to avoid getting down and dirty.
6. You donât bother anymore to go the extra mile for your partner.
You donât dress up, bother about birthdays, anniversaries, etc. Like, whatevs!
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7. You constantly imagine a happier life with someone else.
8. In fact, you find yourself reminiscing all the great times you had with your exes.
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9. You have cheated or contemplated about cheating.
BTW, cheating can also be emotional, aka, talking to other men or women behind baeâs back.
10. You have found yourself telling little lies here and there to cover your tracks.
11. Youâre just genuinely fucking bored and tired of that relationship.