Well, it’s not so obvious. Some men are so good at playing games that you may not be fast to know that they are actually married.

If you really want to know whether the man you are dating is married, watch out for these telltale signs:

1. He always stays at your house but will never invite you to his

Couple watching(GhanaNation)
Couple watching(GhanaNation)

Unless a man is living with his parents, the other reason as to why he won’t want you to visit him is marriage. Try insisting to visit his place one day. If he refuses, just know that he’s a married man and run for your life.

2. He never takes you with him while attending events

If he has nothing to hide, he will want to go with you to his friend’s birthday party or wedding. But if he never invites you, girl, don’t waste your time.

3. You only meet at secluded places

Couple on a bad date
Couple on a bad date

Some privacy will do. But hanging out in a public place does nobody any harm. If you have never been in a public place together, you need to be worried.

4. He meets you at odd hours

Clock gif(Giphy)
Clock gif(Giphy)

An ordinary couple will meet at any time of the day as long as it’s convenient for both of them. But if you have noticed a certain odd pattern in regards to the time your guy is available, it could be that he is married.

5. He will not introduce you to friends and family

Introduction gif(Giphy)
Introduction gif(Giphy)

He could be doing this because he just sees you as a fling. But it could also be because he is married and fears you might end up knowing the truth.

6. He doesn’t pick your calls in the evening

Phone ringing gif((Giphy)
Phone ringing gif((Giphy)

So he is free to talk you during the day but can’t even respond to your texts at 8 pm? Unless he has told you that he has another night job, which could be a lie anyway, the other reason is that he is busy with his family.

7. He never spends special holidays with you

Sad girl gif(Giphy)
Sad girl gif(Giphy)

If you don’t hear from him on Valentine’s day or any other special holiday, there is a probability that he is spending time with his wife and kids.

8. You have no idea where he lives

No idea gif(Tenor)
No idea gif(Tenor)

This goes without saying. If he doesn’t want you to know where he lives yet he knows your place, run for the hills girl.