9 things to remember before engaging in oral s3x with bae

You can get an STD

Oral sex.

When it comes to oral sex, most of the things are pretty basic and obvious.

You don’t need to be reminded what goes where and what the tongue does or doesn’t do. Assuming you’re an adult, you probably got that already covered so we will not dwell on it. However, there are some things you should remind yourself before indulging in oral sex, just to be on the safe side.

1. No you cannot get pregnant through oral sex.

2. However, you can get STDs from oral sex.

So many sexually transmitted diseases are transmitted orally and you have to be careful boys and girls. Don’t indulge in cunnilingus and fellatio with just anyone. Which brings me to the next point,

3. Get tested before you indulge in oral sex.

Of course, giving a blow job while the man is wearing a condom is not the best thing ever…if you’re dating, ensure you get tested first so that you’re sure that you’re safe and free of diseases. With a stranger, while you can always 'YOLO', there’s always that risk of getting a disease and it’s up to you to decide whether it’s worth the risk or not. In my opinion, it’s not worth it, better safe than sorry.

4. When it comes to oral sex, it’s not tit for tat.

Simply because a guy went down on you doesn’t mean that you have to go down on him also. You should only return the favor if you feel like. Never feel forced to do something you don’t consent to.

5. It’s important to note that not all people enjoy oral sex.

Just because one girl you were with enjoyed you going down on her doesn’t mean that every other girl you encounter will be the same. Some people would rather skip the oral sex part for their own personal reasons, maybe they do not enjoy it and that’s fine. So, don’t force it.

6. The person may not always cum from oral sex.

While some people easily climax from oral sex especially through blow jobs and stimulating the clitoris, it’s not always that they will climax. So do not always expect an orgasm. In fact, some women cannot climax at all so don’t sweat it if you’ve been down there for a significant amount of time and she’s still not grabbing the sheets.

7. Oral sex doesn’t always mean that you will have sex afterwards.

This is basic knowledge. Hey sometimes you just want to explore each other’s bodies without necessarily having sex. There’s so much more to a woman than just sex. Don’t always expect a happy ending.

8. It’s important to talk to your partner about it and figure out what they like and don’t like.

For instance, there are some ladies who do not like it when the man finishes on their bodies or in the mouth – they think it’s disrespectful. So, have that talk with your partner and figure out what they like and don’t like so that you’re able to give them maximum pleasure.

9. Hygiene is important.

Clean your nether regions and your mouths. If you’re uncircumcised, clean the head properly and remove any dirt build up that may be on the skin. Don’t forget your asses people, someone’s nose will be down there so, yeah…

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