One of the biggest insecurities among both men and women is whether or not they’re good in bed or able to satisfy their partners.

If you’re unsure on whether your partner is satisfied in bed, you can always have a talk and communicate on things you like and don’t like in bed as well things you’re open to trying out. The last thing you want is to have when dating, is a boring sex life. That’s why it’s important to talk about bedroom matters early on in the relationship. Still, there are small clues that tell you that a man is satisfied with you in bed. Sure, men are all different and people enjoy different things in bed. However, a majority of men will show these signs when they’re happy with you in bed.

1. A high sex drive.

If you really hated sex with someone, would you keep going back? No. So if your guy has a sex drive, it means that he really enjoys having sex with you and you satisfy his sexual needs.

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2. Affection.

A man who really likes you and will show you affection - he will make love to you, not have sex. He will kiss you while making love to you, cuddle you after sex, he will be romantic before even the sex goes down say by having rose petals on the bed and what not. He will be so into you, not just in bed but also outside of the bedroom; PDA everywhere.

3. Spontaneous sex.

Does your man suggest random sex? You’ll be watching a movie on Neflix and suddenly you’re both into it? Well, that’s a sign of a sexually satisfied man.

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4. He doesn’t stray.

Most of the time, men cheat when they’re not getting what they need. If you’re man is not one to cheat and have a wandering eye, he most probably is sexually satisfied with you.

5. He gives you oral sex.

Not all men are keen on going down on ladies. We have all come across such species. But a man who likes you and is satisfied with you will want to return the favor and give you a mind blowing cunnilingus.

6. And not just that,

he will constantly come up with new tricks and styles to please you better and make sure that you’re satisfied too.

Doing the same thing over and over can get boring. The last thing he wants is for you to get bored in bed. He will take it upon himself to try new things in bed for your pleasure. Think of it as keeping up with you.

7. He will constantly be in a good mood.

Sexually starved people have a bad vibe about them, unlike sexually satisfied men.

8. He tells you that he really likes it with you and is always flirting and complimenting your bedroom skills.

9. He has not mentioned that you need to improve on something, sexually.

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