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How to know you’re a nag to your partner

You might just be the problem.

A lot of women are usually accused of being nags in their relationships – this can be a stretch sometimes, while sometimes it can be true.

If your partner has told you to stop nagging them or that you’re a nag countless times then it may be time to look in the mirror and find out what whether you truly are.

Here are four indications to help you figure that out.

1.You command your partner

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Every request that you make of your partner never comes out as a request. It instead comes out as though you are trying to command them to do something. If they forget or do not get a chance to do what you want them to do, you say things like “I thought I told you to do it weeks ago”.

2.You’re manipulative

If you don’t get your way, you start leveraging things out of them. You may point put weaknesses in them that you know will immediately make them do what you want them to do.

3.Nit-picking your partner

Everything they do can never be okay with you. You’re always criticizing their every move. When you give them suggestions, you never give them an opportunity to think about them. It’s your way that’s the best and they should blindly accept that.

4.There’s a different tone in your voice when you talk to your partner

Everyone knows that whiny, high pitched voice that women especially use to try and convince someone to get something. It’s not very cute and can be annoying too. Just speak to your partner like a human being.

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