But that is not always the case as ‘dead-beat’ knows no race.

Akothee recently opened up about the circus her life was after she decided to get a kid with a certain Mzungu who asked her to abort her son before he kicked her out into the winter nights when she was 9 months pregnant.

Taking to social media Akothee narrated her tragedy in the hands of a man who would rather gallivant around the globe looking for a good time rather than take care of his kid.

“ Well I have a baby daddy who would rather spend his money for SEX holidays all over the world , but never taken responsibility of his only child since the baby was born, one time he asked me to give him his child when the child was 4 years, saying that Kenya has no education & good manners , & that he wants the child to learn his language too , First I didn’t agree , but he insisted so as a mother, seeing the connection they had, I gave him the child , he went with him to his Country, after four months , brought back the child saying he had no time , he can't go to work , nor go for coffee nor travel , he said it’s too much work , so the child had to come back to Kenya , a step back word again in school , I arrived at the airport to pick up my child , shiiiiiiiiit , this guy dint even buy his only child, the child he got at injury time late 50s, a suitcase , he packed the baby's clothes in a Carton box !!!! The child goes like “mummy I have all my clothes & all my toys inside the box "! labour pain struck me & I felt like I wanted to push either the bowel , or wherever wherever, I cried I broke down I could not believe what I just saw ........ I just remembered when this same guy threw me out of his house in winter time 9 months pregnant, I remembered this is the same guy who insisted that I should abort this same child.” she wrote.

She then went on to add that after all the drama the man wants his son back.

“7 years later this same guy serves me with a letter from the lawyer that he wants to settle down hence he wants his child to live with him, God, tell this man, to go & tell his lawyer, that my name is not, Esther Akoth Kokeyo anymore & that I am # MADAMBOSS. God, go tell this man that THERE IS FIRE IN THE MOUNTAIN. & Again God remind him that I don't have time for back & forth HE knows my account details & the jumbo junior no. all I know is medical insurance is due & we need flight tickets for summer is around, the rest is history because mummy does not pay rent, otherwise he would have to pay rent for a 5 bedrooms with a sea view, now that am#Madamboss#Akothmyfirstwife, God tell him I have forgiven him for contacting my fiancé, this man seems to have no rest till he see me in the grave.” She wrote.