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6 hand job tips your man will appreciate

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Don't forget about the balls

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Hand jobs, just like blow jobs are not the most fun thing to do. I mean you don't think 'Yay! I'm about to give a hand job, happy days, hashtag excited!'

They really are a job, so kudos to whomever named them Hand Jobs! Anyway, according to most men, most ladies don’t give the perfect hand job. Let’s be honest ladies, how many times have you given a guy a hand job and he actually climaxed? I’ll hold my breath as you count hehe. Listen, the perfect hand job probably doesn’t exist because, different men like different things. One man may want a firm grip on the shaft and another may want you to squeeze that dick like his life depends on it. Still, there are some tips you should follow for a decent HJ (hand job) if you don’t wanna look like an amateur in that department.

1. Remove your jewelry.

How will you start giving a HJ with a hand full of rings and bracelets? That can not only be painful but also dangerous. And while still on this point, if you have Mjengo guy hands, your HJ will not be the most pleasurable experience he’s ever had so keep your hands moisturized, nails short and clean and if you have rough hands, make it a habit to constantly scrub them with a pumice stone.

2. The grip.

Now, like earlier mentioned, different guys like different things. However, according to most men, you will never go wrong with a decent firm grip. Not too soft, not too squeezy. If you’re not sure, you could always ask how he likes it.

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3. Rhythm is important.

Maintaining one rhythm is good but it can get super boring. Think about it. If a guy goes down on you and does the same thing for a couple of minutes, will you not get bored? It’s the same when it comes to HJs. Switch it up, from slow to fast, move the hand up and down the shaft but also turn your wrist, loosen and tighten the grip as you do so, keenly following his reactions. Obviously, from how he reacts, you will know if he’s liking it or not.

4. Don’t focus all the attention on the shaft.

A penis comes with other parts in tow. Don’t forget the balls and the head. For some reason, the balls are always forgotten and left dangling there, bored, lifeless. Play around with his balls – cup them softly, gently squeeze them, fondle them. And as for the head of the penis, it’s quite an erogenous zone so if he has precum already, spread it across the head with your thumb and gently rub it. Another erogenous zone is the frenulum, stroke it gently as you give the HJ. Basically, the point I am trying to drive home is that a HJ is more than just moving your hand up and down the shaft.

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5. Use lube.

If you rub two things together, there’s friction. Duuuh! Going in dry is okay but some lube will add pleasure. You probably wouldn’t enjoy a dry hump, right? Well, yeah, neither is a dry ass HJ. Squeeze some generous amount of lube on your palm and get stroking. Careful with the oils you use though if you have no lube because some of the oils can cause a condom to tear if you plan on proceeding to the main deed afterwards.

6. Learn on the different HJ techniques.

Now, that’s not up to us to teach you. There are a number of HJ techniques out there like using both hands or incorporating your fingers and the sense of touch into the whole action to give your man a toe-curling, mind blowing orgasm reaching HJ that will leave him wanting more.

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