5 topics about sex to discuss with your partner

Communication is key.

Will you be intimate while you’re still dating or are the two of you going to be celibate? Would you want to know how many partners they had before you? So many questions that need answers.

The best thing to do in such a situation is to have a conversation with your partner about all this so that the both of you are on the same page.

Here are five important sex topics to have with your partner.

1.Sexual history

Would you want to know how many people your partner slept with before you or would you rather not talk about it? If you don’t want to talk about it and want to leave the past in the past then it is still a conversation to have just in case you and your partner may not feel the same.

2.Exclusivity

So, the two of you are sleeping with one another but haven’t really defined what you’re actually doing. It is very important to know where you stand with your partner just in case feelings are misplaced.

3.Sexual health

It is crucial to let your partner know about your sexual health. If you aren’t aware yet, visit a doctor and know your status as well as rule out other possible diseases before getting intimate.

4.Contraception

Are you going to use contraception or not? Which type of contraception will work for you two?

5.Sexual desires

Communication about sexual desires or how you like it in the bedroom should definitely be a discussion to have with your partner. If you don’t like something and would want it to change, then communicate it – don’t hurt their feelings in the process though. Show them what you like and they’ll respond the right way – wink.

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