How to deal with the other woman

ruby orimba

May 9, 2017 9:36 AM

Cheating makes the victim feel stupid and undesireable.

You can smell perfume on his shirt, he won’t give you his phone password and hes been picking up calls from another room. When you ask, he says its sensitive detail from work or he didn’t even notice that he does it. You can’t help notice the look on his face when hes texting. You know it because he used to look at you like that when used he flirt with you. He doesn’t do it anymore, in fact you can’t remember the last time he told you something naughty enough to make you blush. You don’t want to believe it, even when the truth is right in front of you. The ghost from your worst nightmare just knocked your front door...

The other woman.

You fight about it, he doesn’t seem to get the picture. You don’t want to sound like a nagging wife. Lord knows you hate drama but what's a girl to do when the man of her dreams is chasing another?

You know you can leave but there are children to think about. You don’t want them to grow without a father because who's going to take a divorcee with children to the altar?

These undoubtedly make perfect reasons why you should hate the other woman. Cheating makes the victim feel stupid, undesirable and unworthy of being loved. The idea of another woman in the arms of your man is devastating but while the entitlement to ditch the manhore or fight for your relationship is ripe, there are somethings you have to consider.

Whatever your goal is, whether it is to save your marriage or divorce your spouse, you have to keep a straight head. Don’t lose your dignity over the greediness of a man. You’re worth much more than he realizes and that’s his fault.