Hey ladies, I know you love your man and will do anything to please him and make him stay.
But hey, if you are his girlfriend, do not try acting like a wife as it is not a guarantee that you are gonna be one anyway. Harsh, right? You see, if you are dating, you should only concentrate on enjoying the courtship period and leave the rest for marriage.
Now, if you are dating, never do these things to your boyfriend all in an effort to keep him. Wait until he puts a ring on it then you can comfortably do them:
1. Doing his laundry
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Again, you are his girlfriend but not his wife. So, unless he is sick, let him clean up his mess. Cleaning his clothes does not mean that he will make you his wife so you had better let him do it on his own.
2. Giving him money
Wait, should men even take money from their girlfriends? Anyway, heavens know whatever happened to those men who would never accept money from their girlfriends. While you can always help him out when he is stuck financially, you should not use money to spoil him or try to keep him.
3. Buying him expensive gifts
Traditionally, men are supposed to gift their women. But things have since changed and anyone can gift the other. Nevertheless, you should never gift your man with those pricey gifts unless you are married. Why should it cost you an arm and a leg to gift him only to find out that he has been cheating on you?
4. Changing your career
The fact that you love him does not mean that you should change your career goals just to have him. Some chances come once in a lifetime and you cannot afford to sacrifice a chance to travel abroad for further studies for the sake of a mere relationship.