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- According to Shaniqwa Jemutai has shown no interest in reconnecting with their son since their separation
- Shaniqwa reflects on noticing red flags in their relationship and dealing with the challenges of raising his son alone
- Their relationship became public after a fallout in 2021, with allegations of infidelity and abandonment
Kelvin Mwangi, better known as Shaniqwa, has spoken out about the challenges of raising his son single-handedly after his ex-wife, club host Naomi Jemutai, popularly known as Mkale Msungu, left him five years ago.
The comedian claims that since their separation, Jemutai has shown no interest in reconnecting with their son.
Five years without contact
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Shaniqwa and Jemutai's relationship became a matter of public interest after their very public fallout in 2021.
At the time, Shaniqwa alleged that Jemutai left him for another man after he lost his job at KTN.
Despite their reconciliation and occasional communication via social media, Shaniqwa insists Jemutai has never attempted to see their son, who was just over one year old when she left.
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Comedian and actor Shaniqwa
No effort to reconnect
The comedian expressed disappointment that, despite their truce, Jemutai has not tried to check on their child.
According to him, the last conversation about her visiting their son happened around his second birthday. âShe kept saying she would come, but she never did. Itâs been five years since she last saw him,â Shaniqwa revealed during an interview with Dr Ofweneke.
The fallout and signs of trouble
Shaniqwa believes their troubles began when he lost his job at KTN, forcing Jemutai to bear the financial burden.
Ironically, she had secured employment with his help, but the tables quickly turned. The pressure mounted, and the strain on their relationship deepened.
He explained that the situation led to deep depression, but he managed to pull through for the sake of his child.
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Comedian and actor Shaniqwa
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Ignoring the red flags
Reflecting on their relationship before the split, Shaniqwa recalls noticing red flags but choosing to ignore them.
One of the major concerns was Jemutai's late-night phone calls and messages. âShe started getting calls in the middle of the night, and I would wake up to find her talking to someone. But I ignored it,â he admitted.
The comedian remembered a strange incident on their sonâs first birthday in 2020. âWe were supposed to have a party at a friendâs house, but then she received a call asking her to go to Ruiru. It was odd because it was such an important day, and yet she wanted to leave. I kept asking her why she couldnât wait. I ignored the signs, but deep down I knew something wasnât right,â he shared.
The public split
Their break-up quickly turned into a public spectacle, with both parties airing their grievances online.
Shaniqwa accused Jemutai of abandoning him during a difficult time, while Jemutai countered by denying the infidelity claims. She further accused him of battling alcoholism and being unfaithful.
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Comedian and actor Shaniqwa
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Despite their bitter fallout, Shaniqwa maintains that he has moved on emotionally, focusing on raising his son and healing from the past.
However, the absence of a mother figure in their sonâs life continues to weigh heavily on him.
âOur son didnât deserve this. He was so young and innocent, but he had to go through so much,â Shaniqwa reflected.
Though the road has been rough, Shaniqwa is determined to give his son the best life possible.