One saying that has unfortunately proven true over the past few months in Kenya (not that we are not aware of how global it is) is that women are their own worst enemies. Fortunately, Dj Nruff is hearing none of it.
The highly renowned deejay shared on his Instragram a few days ago a picture he loved of four beautiful plus size women in bikinis. Then came a daughter of man, one Lilian Lilly who took screenshot of his post and shared on a Facebook post on a controversial women’s group called Chit Chat for Nairobi Moms with the comment, “I think the lady on the far left has a hot body. Hao wengine sijui.” (I don’t know about the rest)
Body shaming comments and insults from the group member were not amusing to the very handsome deejay who is well known for his preference for big bodied women.
Dj Nruff (Rodney Afande) shamed the Nairobi women for their very pedestrian and tasteless comments in one long post on his Facebook telling that it must have taken a lot of guts for the gorgeous ladies in question to actually dress down and rock bikinis.
He said, “So one of my usual Plus Size Instagram posts made it to a certain Facebook Mom Chat Group. (Dont ask how I got this information - I mean my name is Afande) So it was a picture of 4 Very Confident and Beautiful Plus Size ladies, flaunting their curves in Bikinis. Damn what a sight. For those who know me know my preference and Im very proud about it.
This post is not about me but about how sad and low some women go to tear each other apart. I mean Women and Moms are supposed to be loving, caring, sensitive and uplifting. But the comments on the picture are just outright disgusting, degrading, shallow and sad and I can’t even post them here.
First of all when a Plus Size lady is confident enough to get out let alone wear a Bikini is really AMAZING and should be encouraged. It’s sad that women are there fat shaming them and throwing insults at them. This is just wrong and should STOP. I’ve never heard or seen men abuse each other about appearances etc so why would another woman take time to bring down another who is PROUD & CONFIDENT of how she looks and feels.
If you don’t have something nice to say about anything don’t say it. The World is how it is because of such comments and negative attitudes.
Big, Small, Tall, Short, Black, White, Yellow doesn’t matter, find Happiness but don’t try and bring your negative vibes to those who have embraced themselves and are Happy.
SHAME ON YOU FOR TRYING TO BRING SOMEONE DOWN BECAUSE OF YOUR INSECURITIES!!
TO ALL THE BIG, BEAUTIFUL, CONFIDENT, HARDWORKING PLUS SIZE LADIES OUT THERE, KEEP GOING. YOU DONT NEED TO JUSTIFY ANYTHING TO ANYONE. KILL THEM WITH CURVES!!!”
Well, this surely proves that men of class and culture still exist.