There is love, then there is an obsession. You might think that a guy really loves you while they are only obsessed with you.
Signs a guy is dangerously obsessed with you
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When a guy is obsessed with you, it can turn out to be really dangerous. They could even hurt you all in the name of love. So, how do you know if a man is obsessed with you? If your guy exhibits these signs, be very careful as it could mean that they are dangerously obsessed with you:
1. They constantly accuse you of cheating
They do not even have evidence but they always think you are cheating just because you are too beautiful or they just saw you talk to another guy.
2. They do not give you space
You hardly have time to be alone. They are all over you because they think you will cheat on them if they don’t watch you closely. This is not loving. It’s a pure obsession.
3. They don’t give your privacy
They have no respect for privacy. They will poke their noses into your business and monitor each and every move. They will read your messages and may even ask for your social media passwords to make sure no other man is pursuing you.
4. They rush things
You have just gone for a few dates and they already want to meet their parents? Obsession detected.
5. They keep you from people you love
They will not tell you to stop seeing your friends or visiting your family more often. But they will start complaining that you are not spending enough time with them. They want to be around you all the time and get jealous when you spend time with other people.
6. Too much jealous
A little bit of jealousy is normal in relationships. But if your guy is too jealous to let you go out with your friends or colleagues, it could be an obsession.
7. He floods your inbox with messages
He should check on you but not after every 15 minutes. He needs to learn that you also got a life that doesn’t revolve around him. He should let you breathe and give you a chance to at least miss him.
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