Tips on how to give a blowjob that will blow his mind

A blow job is when a man or woman puts their lover’s penis in their mouth, and proceeds to suck and lick it for the man’s pleasure. It’s also called oral sex, fellatio, or "going down on" someone. Men, as many believe, are big fans of the ol’ BJ. But do you know not all men actually like Blowjobs. Yes. There are men who do not love to have their dicks moistened by your mouth.

Blowjob has been there for centuries! However, the media doesn’t depict it in the best of light.

Like in porn, someone is either being “slapped” by a D, forced to gag or get ejaculated on in demeaning ways. That said, there are women who HATE the thought of going down on mana, but before you cancel it all together…you can use following tips to make it exciting for both of you.

Get comfy, get it right & find a rhythm

Men take faster than a woman to ejaculate, however, 3-5minutes doesn’t look fast enough when you are giving BJ. So get comfy, get a position that feels good for you. Being able to watch is an extremely hot part of the process, so it’s nice to give him a good view.

Don’t dive right in. Warm the man, teasing with your hands/boobs/butt. Some men don’t like excess teasing. It may feel a little uncomfortable or ticklish. When erect, take his entire penis into your mouth and swirling your tongue around it as he grows bigger. It might be the only time you’re able to get the full thing in your mouth, so have fun! If he’s already erect, start at the base of his penis and make a few long, slow licks from the base to the tip. Keep your tongue broad and flat. NO TEETH! Unless he is into pain.

Find a rhythm that works for your man. Don’t use the past man’s rhythm for the next.

The wetter the better

When they say “spit”, they mean exactly that! Spit on that D! Get your whole life together and gather the spit. I’m not saying phlegm…saliva. You can only produce so much spit so you can use edible lubricant.

Don’t forget the balls.

These are sensitive. So tread carefully…and not every man wants the balls touched, so don’t go grabbing.

The testicles are often criminally neglected during oral. As soon as you feel comfortable with your basic technique, start paying some attention to his balls. You can do this with either your hand or your mouth. Find a good balance between grasping firmly enough (too light will feel ticklish), and not being too rough.

Explore other things

Bring the fun in to it. It’s not always and only about your saliva. Use ice cubes, ice lollies (the warm and cold effect is AMAZING) explore. That D is your ground to release the beast in you. Google and learn more tips.