When it comes to sex, foreplay is one of the most important parts of the activity. It helps gain and sustain arousal and is a lot of fun for both parties. To get your man in the mood, one of the most effective techniques is the hand job.

This is whereby you use your hands to fondle his member and make him scream your name in octaves he didn’t know he could achieve.

These are the three best things to do to give your man the best blow job of his life

Use lube

There’s no such thing as too much lubrication. Instead of using spit like you’re in a low budget porno, use water based lubricant, it washes off easily, doesn’t stain and feels almost as good as the real thing.

Use both hands

Forget the usual cranking motion of using one hand to rub up and down. Use both hands. Wrap them around the shaft, twist in different directions and then move up and down. Occasionally squeeze as you milk that thing.

Talk to him

Let him tell you what he enjoys. Make him be as vivid as possible. The more instructive the better.